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- Essay Name : 1286.txt
- Uploader : Beth Ellis
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- Language : English
- Subject : History
- Title : Lost Family
- Grade : 90
- School System : College
- Country : USA
- Author Comments : This is a paper concerning the positive aspects of two lives in a midevil time.
- Teacher Comments : Didn't really write any->kind of a prick
- Date : 10/96
- Site found at : Friend
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- Ellis 1
- Lost Family
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- In Steven OzmentÆs Magdalena and Balthasar, one is able to understand the life of a
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- unique merchant family in sixteenth-century Europe. Magdalena and Balthasar are a
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- humble couple with extraordinary styles of living. The two are separated due to business
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- related professions; however, they communicate mainly through letters. Through these
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- letters they release their beliefs about marriage, parenting, and religion. These beliefs
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- caught from their letters also allow an in depth look at the customs of their time.
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- As lovers separated by months at a time due to BalthasarÆs work as a merchant,
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- Magdalena and Balthasar wrote letters to retain their relationship. Taking pieces from
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- these letters, one can formulate their thoughts and their feelings toward each other. Their
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- relationship was one of respect, love, and compromise. Magdalena and BalthasarÆs
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- relationship might have been so strong due to their similar backgrounds. Both were very
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- close to the other members in their families, involved in private and business aspects.
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- Both had an impressive pedigree as well. Some family members held various positions on
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- councils, and their families came from a line of successful merchants in Nuremberg.
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- Despite Magdalena and BalthasarÆs ancestry, they were extraordinarily different. They
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- were not rich, or in high positions; however, they had enough to satisfy their needs. In
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- comparison to the rest of Nuremberg, Magdalena and Balthasar were an average middle
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- class merchant family.
- Ellis 2
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- When one looks at Magdalena and BalthasarÆs marriage, he or she will realize it is
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- anything but below average. With their present day society, the husband is the dominant
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- figure and the wife is left with the household duties and children. However, Magdalena
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- and Balthasar had a relationship based on mutuality. This bond will bring equal
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- understanding and equal responsibility to both, which will in turn make their love grow.
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- This growing love is mentioned and expressed in every letter written. Magdalena
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- expresses her love for Balthasar by adding sentimental materials in her letters. An
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- example is when ôshe folds flowers from their garden into her letters to him...and on one
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- occasion she included a string for Balthasar to bind about his wrist as a token of their
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- friendly bondö(28). Balthasar expresses his love for Magdalena primarily through prose.
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- Every letter he writes to Magdalena, he address her as his ôhonest, good, true, friendly,
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- dearest, closest brideö(28). These words may sound subtle; however, these words are
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- very passionate and sentimental in their time.
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- Along with love, Magdalena and Balthasar had a strong foundation of trust. Since
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- Balthasar was away from home due to his career, Magdalena was to take care of the
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- affairs at home. In order for Balthasar to have his affairs taken care of, he must trust
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- someone to do them for him. ôBalthasar respected and regularly sought MagdalenaÆs
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- business judgmentö(75). It is normal for a woman to take care of her husbands affairs
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- when he is away on business, but it still requires a significant amount of trust. The trust
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- and love Balthasar had toward his wife is vast; however, he does not totally give himself.
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- Balthasar retains an amount of authority for himself, and tends to disagree occasionally.
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- Ellis 3
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- ôWhen they disagree, they tend to compromise, but on the terms that favored the
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- fatherö(95). Magdalena knew that she was somewhat inferior and not totally equal when
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- she says, ôOf course, in this matter it is yours to do as you pleaseö(79). The balance
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- between trust and compromise that Magdalena and Balthasar display, is unique to their
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- relationship and unique to their present day. This balance will prove to be unique in
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- relationships in the future, even in twentieth-century society.
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- In the methods of parenting is where one will find the greatest contrast and similarities
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- between Magdalena and Balthasar. The difference in parenting mainly comes from their
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- choice of style. Magdalena is the comforting and understanding parent, while Balthasar
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- was the strict and disciplinary parent. When Balthasar would leave, he would instruct
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- Magdalena to ôtell little Balthasar to be good, for the time being, otherwise I will bring
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- him nothingö(94). Little Balthasar knew that his father had that strict personality, and
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- understood his fathers demands because ôlittle Balthasar also knew his father to be a man
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- who demanded of others almost as much as he was capable of giving...ö(92). Magdalena
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- understands the difficulty of BalthasarÆs demands and sympathizes with her son, showing
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- her protective and motherly instincts. ôMagdalena is advocate and sentinel for her son,
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- reminding the absent father of the boyÆs worthiness and encouraging paternal recognition
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- and praiseö(92). The most similar parenting style between the two is their love for their
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- son. The love and support from both Magdalena and Balthasar is extraordinary and adds
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- to their uniqueness. They provided their son a good education, food, a home, and support
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- to his needs. Sadly, their son died; however, it had nothing to do with parenting. They
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- turned to each other for support and comfort in depressing times. This common love and
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- loss for their son is very unique for their time, and proves to be unique even in twentieth-
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- century life.
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- Religion is a very important aspect of sixteenth-century life and proves to be another
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- unique characteristic of Magdalena and Balthasar. Magdalena and Balthasar believe God
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- is involved in everyday life and is in absolute control. ôThey think of God as an
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- absolutely omnipotent being, who controls human destiny on earth and into
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- eternity...ö(144). If someone loses a business deal, gets infected by an illness, or
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- experiences the death of an only child, Magdalena and Balthasar believe it is ôan obvious
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- punishment of Godö(144). Religion is an essential part of life for Magdalena and
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- Balthasar and following his control is necessary for their prosperity. ôThey are true
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- believers who constantly find God at the boundary between success and failure, sickness
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- and health, life and death-and they hold him responsible for allö(143).
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- Through Magdalena and BalthasarÆs beliefs and actions in marriage, parenting, and
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- religion, they are truly ahead of their time. Having this collection of letters illustrates the
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- life of a sixteenth-century family and portrays the hardships of a medieval time period.
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- Many can read Magdalena and Balthasar and learn what it takes to love one another, raise
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- a child, and have religion as a central part of life. This may seem common; however, one
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- must realize that the letters are from a time when these actions were uncommon.
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- Magdalena and Balthasar are a twentieth-century family living in a medieval time. These
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- letters were collected because of that fact and should be read with admiration and
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- astonishment.
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